Seven Things Every Man Should Know Before Dating or Marrying a Chinese Woman

How to write an online dating profile

Seven Things Every Man Should Know Before Dating or Marrying a Chinese Woman

Get many replies after putting up your dating profile when you follow our proven techniques telling you how to write an online dating profile.

In short: to write an amazing profile you need to:

We will explain below how your profile can stand out in online dating websites but first a word about passion.

What does passion mean?

Don’t simply state what you do but

For example:

Every day I bring a smile on people’s face without them even knowing it

sounds much better than:

5 online dating tips to get a date after people read your online dating profile

1. Make sure to show emotions, motivation, passion and feelings

Always add feelings when you talk about the things you do.

For example:

When I was in Malaysia last year, I visited as much open air food stalls as possible. It’s fun lining up and asking the people in the queue what they are going to order and why. Food stalls are ideal to taste many new and delicious dishes. And I learned that Malaysians are even more passionate about food than I am.

Reading this online dating profiles like above, you immediately start picturing what it would be like to travel with this person who is:

Your profile needs to create an emotional connection, which doesn’t work when you would simply write: I love to travel and to eat.

Write a story and give an example how life with you looks like. People do want to see what type of a person you are. And they will learn when you write about the typical things you do.

2. Be funny

Again: give a funny example and don’t just write in your profile that you are funny. Worse: don’t say that all your friends think you are funny… Your profile is about you, not about your friends!

Don’t be a clown (unless that’s what you are) but try to put a smile on the reader’s face. Smiles always attract people when dating.

3. Add recent pictures

And we do mean more than one picture.

Always remember the expression : "love at first sight". This expression clearly explains that an online dating profile with a picture has a head start compared to personals without pictures.

Be honest with your pictures. They have to be:

Men and women do love to see :

how to write an online dating profileTell a story with your pictures: not any story but a story that will attract your potential date. A story in which your potential date can see him or herself:

Most likely you won’t find a classy date when you show a picture of yourself boozing away in your favorite pub with all your drinking friends…

A better story would be in our "Malaysian example" when you add a picture of yourself in front of the 5 different dishes you just ordered on your trip to Malaysia.

So do go through all your pictures and add pictures:

 For example:

 Dating profile showing from left to right:

  •  your face and eyes and your passion for dogs (no sunglasses in front of the eyes – but still showing you love sunglasses) 
  • your passion for food and love to eat with more than one person 
  • your favorite hobby 
  • your office look

The above pictures show all different sides from who you are. Of course make sure that what you write in your online dating profile matches your pictures.

4. Don’t brag

Bragging is a turn off in dating profiles. A turn on is showing your confidence though. Highlight your best points but stay humble and add some fun where possible.

For example:

I have worked hard in my life to be where I am now. Hard because I fell a few times and needed to do better after I got up again. Success for me means having the freedom to do what I like… which is having time to hang out with you on a date.

5. Be honest

Suppose you write your dating profile as if you are Mister Wonderful of Miss Congeniality. The first thing that will happen when you meet online people who are not honest is :

 The idea of writing Internet dating profiles is:

 When you are like what you write in your profile, the person who is going to contact you already has an idea of what to expect and what not.

 Your profile is designed to help people form an opinion about you. Written honestly and following the dating tips we mentioned above, your profile will entice others to contact you immediately.

 People contact the authors of dating profiles because:

 Just be honest, so you and the person contacting you will have it easier "to take it from there".

Writing an online dating profile summarized

The more you write in your online dating profile, the easier it becomes for others to decide to contact you.

Online dating is very competitive. That’s why:

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Your tips are wonderful

Very interesting and an amazing lessons. I’m having a new best teacher, thank you so much.

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